As I was researching the effects on feeling worthy as a woman, when they are ‘childless not by choice’ I came across a small scientific study from 2020. The abstract started with: ‘Understandably, a woman achieves the highest in life when having a child from her womb; yet, such opportunity sometimes does not come to all women.’ Ouch!! I feel punched in the heart and gut…does this mean that if I don’t have children, I’m not achieving the ‘highest’ in life!? And by the way, who decides that for me or other women!? I’d say I would decide that for myself, thank you! (And everyone for themselves, as well!) This is one of the reasons why I feel passionate about working with women who are childless so they can reconnect with their inherent feminine worth, release themselves from limiting beliefs or possible stressful societal narratives, and cultivate the life they feel good in, one that is fully aligned with themselves.
Perhaps your life didn’t go as planned/hoped/expected, for whichever reason you don’t have a child/children, but please don’t let other people’s beliefs about your situation let you feel like you are ‘less than’. Let’s not do that to each other. Even though I know it’s easier said than done to not feel ‘less than’, it’s an easy thing to do. Dealing and/or coping with that kind of disenfranchised grief can be hard enough, let alone having other people decide for you that now you aren’t ‘achieving’ the highest in life… I want you to know and feel that you are worthy and deeply feel that within yourself and feel alive and live a joyous and delicious life, no matter the circumstances!
You’re born worthy and deserve to cultivate a life that fulfills you (all women and men of course, but in this moment specifically speaking about the childless women)! Anyway, that just really p*sses me off… I mean, she can have her opinion, but then please say: ‘I believe a woman achieves the highest in life when….’, then we know it’s clear how she feels, but please don’t speak for all of us, thanks. I don’t want to speak for all of us either, by the way. I want you to listen to YOU ✨! Listen to your inner body wisdom AND then combine that wisdom with your beautiful brain for best results 💖🔥!
